Sunday, August 28, 2016

Evil God?

Anger and nail in the wall

28/8/16, 1:41:58 PM: Kwee! Chang: There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.

The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.

Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.

The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there."

The little boy then understood how powerful his words were. He looked up at his father and said "I hope you can forgive me father for the holes I put in you."

"Of course I can," said the father.

It's not always anger, it is your actions in general. There are no "fresh starts" in life. There is no new beginning. Forgiveness comes easy for many people but the scars of the past, they never go away. Watch what you do today, because sometimes the price isn't worth the reward.


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Tuesday, August 23, 2016

Exercise Vs. Diet

Exercise Vs. Diet

Exercise Vs. Diet

The age-old debate of whether weight loss is best achieved by watching your diet or working out may finally have an answer.

The next time you tell your friends you want to shed a couple of kilos, chances are some will advise you to skip the carbs while others will tell you to hop on a treadmill right away. However, is one method really better than the other? 

At first glance, dieting without exercising creates an energy deficit, which is key to weight loss. An energy deficit occurs when more energy is being used than consumed. 

However, Ms Chow Li Ming, a dietitian at National Healthcare Group Polyclinics (NHGP), advises against such programmes. 

"Dieting without exercising can reduce weight but the weight loss may not be sustainable," she explains. "If you consume the same amount of kilocalories that allowed you to lose weight in the first place, you may maintain your weight if your energy intake and expenditure are equal. However, many people regain weight over the long term when they resume eating more." 

So if dieting alone doesn't lead to sustainable weight loss, would exercise solely do the trick? 

Not quite, according to a study published in the Journal of Strength and Conditioning Research.

As part of the study, researchers from Arizona State University in the United States enlisted 81 overweight women to join a fitness programme. During the three-month long study, the women engaged in treadmill workouts three times a week, but their eating habits were not monitored. 

Three months later, 70 per cent of the women had actually gained some fat mass during the programme, despite their increased activity. 

While the study could not conclude the exact reasons for the weight gain, researchers believe that the participants who gained weight consumed more food believing that they had burned enough kilocalories to justify the extra food.

​It Takes Two

"Caloric restriction coupled with regular exercise helps to reduce weight safely and sustainably," says Ms Chow. By eating the same amount while exercising more, a sustainable energy deficit can be created. 

 "A daily energy deficit of 500 to 1,000 kcal would allow one to lose between 0.5k​​​g to 1kg per week," she says. 

One's diet is also crucial — the Health Promotion Board recommends that half your plate be filled with fruit and vegetables​, a quarter filled with protein, and a quarter filled with wholegrains.

Once your meals are settled, it is time to work up a sweat. According to the American College of Sports Medicine, 150 to 250 minutes of moderate-intensity exercise​ a week would help with weight maintenance; anything more leads to weight loss. ​Moderate-intensity exercises should leave you breathless but still able to speak three to four words at a time.

Mr Mathew Tay, a physiotherapist at NHGP, recommends a combination of resistanc​​​​e and endurance training to meet weight loss goals. 

"Resistance training, which largely comprises weight training, promotes muscular strength and power. This, in turn, encourages the building of fat-free mass while maximising fat loss. Endurance training such as brisk-walking, jogging and swimming, promotes energy expenditure and increases cardiovascular fitness," says Mr Tay. 

Into the Blue

Working out can be tough on your body, especially if you are not used to it. 

"The heavier your upper body, the more exertion you place on your ​​​​​​​​lower limb joints," explains Mr Mathew Tay, a physiotherapist at NHGP. 

He suggests easing into a workout programme by starting out in a swimming pool. Aquatic exercises reduce the load on your knees and joints, thereby preventing pain while exercising. 

In addition, he advises that you do land-based exercises as well, so as to enhance routine function and mobility. 

BY ASHUTOSH RAVIKRISHNAN IN CONSULTATION WITH MS CHOW LI MING DIETITIAN AND MR MATHEW TAY PHYSIOTHERAPIST // NATIONAL HEALTHCARE GROUP POLYCLINICS. 




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Sunday, August 21, 2016

Good news for the elderly

I am an elderly person. At this old age one do experience many types of illnesses. But the one I worried most is Alzheimer's.

Not only I cannot look after myself but it causes a lot of inconveniences to other members in my family.

One day, my child came home and told me that a doctor friend has taught him an exercise using the tongue. The tongue exercise is effective to reduce the onset of Alzheimer's and is also useful to reduce / improve

*1* Body weight
*2* Hypertension
*3* Blood-Clot in Brain
*4* Asthma
*5* Far-sightedness
*6* Ear buzzing
*7* Throat infection
*8* Shoulder / Neck infection
*9* Insomia

My child showed and taught me the moves which are very simple and easy to learn.

Each morning when you wash your face infront of a mirror, begin with the exercise as below :

*Stick out your tongue and move it to the right then to the left for 10 times*

Only that since I started exercising my tongue daily and within a year there was improvement in my brain retention. My mind was clear and fresh and there were improvements too ....

*1* far sightedness
*2* giddiness
*3* improve wellness
*4* digestion and absorption
*5* flu / cold

All the past problems which I feared has lessened tremendously.

Sicknesses to my body reduced too and I am stronger and more agile.

*Notes*

Tongue exercise helps to control and prevent Alzheimer's .... It has its foundation / base from:

Medical research has found that the tongue has connection with the big brain. When our body becomes old and weak, first sign to appear is our tongue becomes stiff and often we tend to bite ourselves.

Frequently exercising your tongue will stimulate the brain, helps to reduce our thoughts from shrinking and thus achieve a healthier body 💪💪👍👍


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Thursday, August 18, 2016

Dear parents...

A Letter from a School Principal...
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Dear Parents,

The exams of your children are to start soon. I know you are all really anxious for your child to do well.

But, please do remember, amongst the students, who will be sitting for the exams, there is an artist, who doesn't need to understand Maths.

There is an entrepreneur, who doesn't care about History or English literature.

There's a musician, whose Chemistry marks won't matter.

There's a sportsperson, whose physical fitness is more important than Physics..like Schooling

If your child does get top marks, that's great! But, if he or she doesn't, please don't take away their self-confidence and dignity from them.

Tell them it's OK, it's just an exam! They are cut out for much bigger things in life.

Tell them, no matter what they score, you love them and will not judge them.

Please do this, and when you do, watch your children conquer the world. One exam or a low mark won't take away their dreams and talent.

And please, do not think that doctors and engineers are the only happy people in the world.

With Warm Regards,
The Principal.


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Sunday, August 14, 2016

Some schooling humour

*Just out* - Latest swimming doping test results for Schooling - he was found to have traces of ........... *_Sambal belachan!_* Phelps asking him where to buy!!😱😱😱😁😁😁

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MOE's message from this morning's historic moment:

"Schooling is important to the nation!"
"Schooling brings joy and pride."
"Schooling gets you ahead of others!"
So will Monday be a school holiday?

The answer is *NO*

Why?

Answer: because all children like Schooling


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Wednesday, August 3, 2016

Getting along with parents

Getting along with parents
I wish I had better parents.

Every family has its own set of circumstances and problems that only its members can fully understand. You may wonder why you were born into your family. Or why your parents aren't as kind as others. Or why you are not blessed with a more beautiful home and a more loving and supportive family. You may even want to leave home. One thing I can say, however, is that no matter what kind of people your parents are, they are your parents. If you did not have them, you would not be alive. Please understand the deep significance of this point. You were born to this particular family in this particular place on this planet Earth at this particular time. You were not born into any other family. This fact encompasses the meaning of everything.

Buddhism explains that nothing happens by chance and that people already possess within them all they need to be happy. Therefore, there is no treasure more precious than life itself. No matter how difficult your situation, no matter how much you feel ignored by your parents, you are alive now - still young and blessed with a youthful spirit with which you can construct the happiest of lives from this moment forward. Do not destroy or harm your precious future by giving way to despair today.

Courageously spur yourself on, reminding yourself the deeper pain and grief, the greater the happiness that awaits you. Have the determination to become a pillar of support for your family. Buddhism teaches this way of life. Whether you have a parent suffering from alcoholism or a serious illness, whether your family is experience difficult times because of parent's failed business, whether you have endure the pain of seeing a parent criticized and attacked even falsely, or whether you are abandoned by a parent - all of these seemingly adverse situations can be viewed as nourishment to make you grow even stronger.

Regardless of how you are treated by your parents, ultimately, it is your responsibility, not theirs, that you become happy. It is up to each of us to have the determination to become the "sun" that can dispell all the darkness in our lives and within our families. Nichiren Buddhists know that this resolve can be fortified by chanting Nam myoho renge kyo each morning and evening.

No matter what happens, it is vital that you live confidently with the conviction that you are the "sun". Of course, in life there are sunny days and cloudy days. But even on cloudy days, the sun is still shinning. Even if we are still suffering, it is vital that we strive to keep the sun shinning brightly in our hearts.

One young person I know has no father, his mother is incapacitated by serious health problems, and his older sister is in the hospital. While enduring so many hardships in youth, he has already scaled a high mountain in life, well ahead of others. I believe that young people who confront such hardships will be the leaders of the twenty-first century.

The Way Of Youth - pg 8
SGI President
Daisaku Ikeda


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